It has been a month since I last blogged. Man,I was too busy for the past few weeks.Dealing with an ocean of assignments and reports had made me look 10 years older. I think I should consider plastic surgery.
Anyway, I AM STILL ALIVE!!!
Well, I actually would like to talk about FRIEND in this post.
I am actually glad that I have a bunch of true friends surrounding me, no matter when, where and how do I know them. They always be there when I have any problems or difficulties.(I know I am a troublemaker lahh.-.-) I think I will be crying everyday if I don't have them helping me.
Hmm.The reason that I want to write about FRIEND in this post is that I came across a situation that Miss A considers Miss B as her best friend but when Miss B does something wrong, Miss A doesn't really pinpoint her mistakes but just let her do what she wants. When I heard Miss A said that 'She is my best friend', I was thinking whether this was true. I am not being mean or whatever. Of course, something did happen which had caused me to think in this way. Miss A somehow likes to blame about Miss B, saying that she doesn't know how to talk by judging the situation (which I agree as well ). However, aren't you her best friend? Shouldn't you pinpoint her mistakes so that she won't do the (stupid) mistake again? I was doing my report that time and this actually distracted me for quite a while.
I found that it's kinda hard to find true friends in university or maybe in working field. I don't know whether this really applies to everyone or maybe just me. -.- Some of them are just looking benefits from you. They talk to you when they think that you actually have a value ( Hmm..maybe they want to get a boyfriend or want to have some assignment tips from you ). They won't even bother you if you are just a normal girl having normal grade and safe look. I found that it's pretty sad, really sad. Besides, you can't really share secrets with them. Some of them will just reveal your secrets in order to catch the others attention and be the centre of the group. However, this hasn't happened on me. If it does, she/he better gets her/his face polished and be prepared to accept my slap. This is just tooooooo selfish!!!
I somehow found this is pretty scary. I haven't experienced this in primary and secondary schools. The friends during this period around me are really nice and don't have really much 心计. The good thing is they still treat you in the same way as they did during the past. That's why I miss Malaysia so much.
Of course, there are still some cool friends in the university. You will still able to find true friends if you treat the others sincerely. 'Birds of a feather flock together', people with bad attitude always group together, harming each other endlessly.LOOOL! Man, I'm too mean.
Last but not least, I just want to end this post by saying that :--
I am lucky enough to have you guys, true friends. :)
